How to survive cheating?
Few things can cause more heartbreak than cheating. Many doctors believe that heartbreak in fact results in the same amount of pain as physical injuries.
Nevertheless, almost all of us have experienced it at least once. What do you do if you suspect your partner has had an affair? How do you cope when you discover that cheating actually happened? Can a broken cup be put together and how to live through the situation and become stronger, calmer and more confident? Let us have a look.
Doubts about the fidelity of your spouse rarely come from nowhere. Yet, when you start having them, it is important to stop and listen – where do the reasons for your suspicions lie? Is it about your partner or you? Are you suspicious because you want their behavior to change or want change of your self-worth? Did the feeling emerge suddenly or are you generally suspicious and jealous of your partner?
If doubting your partner is typical of you, then aren't you tuning up the reality to make your suspicions come true?
Definitely, some Tarot layouts are capable of "showing" infidelity. Suit of Swords and the most unpleasant of its representatives – Three, Five, Nine and Ten of Swords as well as Tower, World and Judgment, which magically appear in the layout about love life already mean that something is not right, to say the least. Normally, they answer to the question, "what do I not know about my partner?" However, before you ask this question, ask another one – do I really want to know this? Are you ready to go with this definiteness?
When infidelity is brought to the surface, we experience a whole array of emotions. The pain of treachery, disappointment, collapse of your normal picture of the world, self-doubt, fear for your future, uncertainty, confusion – all these burden at once, depriving you of the ability to think straight and make the right choice.
Well, when the pain is this strong it is not easy to calm down and take a breath. Still, I will try to help you – breath deep, come to your senses and start with a careful calculation of your "resource". Where are you now? What are your goals and opportunities – apparent and hidden? Where do you want to go from there? Tarot can help choose the safest way out of this situation but at first, we need to understand where you want to go. Do you want to keep the relationship or break it up? Is protection of your children's interests involved? Where does you hidden potential and the source of power lie? Do you want to fight and what do you want to fight for? What are the potential consequences of various decisions you can take?
It is not easy to find answers to these questions in loneliness and emotional disturbance. So, we will try to map out a route together, a route that will bring you to your happiness, even if at the moment it seems that happiness is impossible.